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Don’t you just hate those all American personal development gurus with perfect hair, shiny teeth and more money than they deserve telling you how to run your life. This is an article about some of the thing that NLP Trainers don’t want you to know.

One of my pet hates in the personal development world are the self righteous, smug gurus that want to tell you that they can heal you with love and all you need to do is hug strangers. The sad fact is that a lot of NLP Trainers don’t always walk their talk and many of them are not quite as self-developed as they would like you to think.

Just as an example there are many NLP Trainers that talk in depth about building and maintaining great personal and professional relationships. I know of some of the big Personal Development ‘names’ that have several fail marriages and change business partners more often than their underwear. Shouldn’t they know enough to be able to make this work well for themselves?

The NLP Community is divided with many trainers disagreeing with each other and several suing each other at regular intervals. If NLP Coaching is about communications should these trainers have the skills to solve their difference without having to resort to court and bad mouthing one another?

Does all this mean that NLP does not work, that these trainers are not walking their talk or is there something else going on?

The reality is somewhere between all three. The foundations of NLP are about a pragmatic way of achieving success for yourself. A good NLP Practitioner Course will give you an attitude, a methodology and techniques to be able to model success. Great NLP Training will then let you discover for yourself how you will use this information.

NLP Training when delivered properly is empowering and will set you on a road to your own personal and professional success. But the nature of empowerment is that you will go in the directions you choose and for your own reasons. So just because you have really powerful communication tools sometimes you might consider it in your best interests to doing things differently even if it is not a demonstration of great communication techniques.

If you have the attitude, methodology and tools to create great success in every area of your life you might have a tendency to set high standards and expectations, both of yourself and of others and possibly be less tolerant of not meeting these expectations. As you might already be seeing gaining great NLP Techniques may be a two edge sword.

By attending a good NLP Training Course you will suddenly find yourself with a range of NLP Techniques that you can apply to achieve more than you could dream possible. It is not about telling you how to run your life, who you should hug or what crystals you should wave at which endangered species. It is all about empowering you to achieve the dreams that you want to achieve. Picking the right NLP Training Course will give you the tools to be a great coach potato, build a cult, find your ideal partner or a one night stand…in fact anything you can conceive of doing NLP can help you achieve.